Domestic violence against men: an often taboo problem!

Domestic violence against men: an often taboo problem!

In a worrying trend in Austria and Germany, an increase in violence against men and queer people can be determined. According to the federal specialist and coordination office, men's gathic protection (BFKM) have doubled reports on men who suffer domestic violence in recent years. In 2022, around 70,000 men were reported as affected, while the number was much lower in 2021. The decision over 46 protective places for men in Germany shows the lack of support, such as Enrico Damme, a leading member of the BFKM. Many men hesitate to seek help because social taboos they prevent them from seeing themselves as a "victim".

increasing attacks on queer men

The increase in attacks on queer men in Austria is particularly alarming. This is shown by the latest reports by Niedermayer, a representative of LGBT-IQ groups that describes how shy men are extremely attacked due to their sexuality. He is convinced that the political rhetoric of figures such as Viktor Orban and Donald Trump has reinforced the hatred of queer people, which often feels isolated. Two men searched for help at Niedermayer after they were attacked in a well-known cruising area south of Graz. Anonymous sexuality that took place there remains legal, but there are always problems with the neighborhood and the risk of attacks is increased.

Development illustrates that violence against men, be it physically or mentally, is often not taken seriously. In many cases, men do not feel able to share their experiences for fear of stigmatization or unbelief. The BFKM therefore demands increased awareness of the topic in order to overcome fairytale ideas that only women can be affected by violence. The organization offers information and help offers on its website and encourages men to accept help before it is too late. It is important that those affected know that they are not alone and receive support without having to feel shame.

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