Oktoberfest flirts: waitress reveals the secret gymnastics!

Oktoberfest flirts: waitress reveals the secret gymnastics!

The Oktoberfest in Munich attracts thousands of visitors every year who look forward to festival beer, traditional dishes and exuberant celebrations. But far beyond the enjoyment of beer, the festival is often associated with flirts and romantic encounters. An experienced waitress, Stefanie Baumann, has gathered her observations and experiences from years in the marquee and captured in a book. In it she not only describes the joys of flirting, but also the bizarre and sometimes unpleasant stories that she experienced as a waitress.

Baumann, a 48-year-old from Altötting, has been working at the Oktoberfest for many years and knows about the special conditions that shape this atmosphere. "The Oktoberfest is a place full of moments of happiness and inviting atmosphere. The colorful lights and the smell of roasted almonds contribute to the fact that there is a romantic mood in the marquee," she explains. It recommends that visitors flirt in the smaller tents if possible, as they often offer a more pleasant and intimate atmosphere.

waitress comments about flirts and strange

Despite the positive experiences she had with flirting at the Oktoberfest, there are also dark sides. Misunderstandings can quickly occur, especially with excessive alcohol enjoyment. "When a lot of alcohol is involved, people become indiscriminately," says Baumann. She points out that many of these flirts are not long -lasting and often show unexpected combinations, such as older men with significantly younger women.

Another interesting detail that Bauman has observed is the behavior of German men flirting. "The gentlemen usually go into groups, hardly anyone dares alone," she says. They often lack courage, and they have to "drink courage" first to become active. In contrast, men from southern Europe, for example from Spain or Italy, are much more confident and address women without alcohol.

sensational observations in the tents

The waitress describes a particularly violent flirt story that she experienced as particularly confusing and disturbing. A couple had deepened into his passion in the tent that the woman vomited. The couple's reaction to it? They just continued as if nothing had happened. "Brutal, something like that," commented Baumann shocked. These incidents are not only embarrassing, they also raise questions about respect and border lines of consent.

In addition, there are even more serious topics that are confronted with the cheerful mood of the Oktoberfest. If the consensuality is lost at Flirts, this can quickly result in sexual assault. A scientist from the Munich University of Applied Sciences showed in a study of how often waitresses have already been bothered at the Oktoberfest. It turns out that the intoxication of the festivities sometimes skips the human limits.

While the Oktoberfest is a place of joy and exuberance for many, the reports of waitresses speak that one should not forget how important a respectful way of dealing with each other is. The desire to flirt and close new acquaintances should never go over the individual limits of others. In Baumann's words: "Flirting should be fun. But if the fun takes on the fun, it can quickly become uncomfortable."