Flirts and scandals: What the Wiesn waiter reveals about love

Flirts and scandals: What the Wiesn waiter reveals about love

Munich - the Oktoberfest, also known as Oktoberfest, is not only a meeting point for beer lovers, but also a place where flirts and romances can develop. Stefanie Baumann, an experienced waitress who has been working on the festival for many years, gave exciting insights into flirt culture during the holidays in an interview. In her book "Germany in the beer tent. The sufferings and joys of the Oktoberfest waitresses" she describes her experiences and the challenges that arise from alcohol-related unpredictable.

The atmosphere at the Oktoberfest is attractive for many visitors. Baumann describes how the colorful lights and fragrance of roasted almonds create the ideal setting for carefree acquaintances. In addition, she emphasizes that smaller tents often offer better opportunities to get into conversation, while the large marquee is suitable for the first approaches.

flirting behavior at the Oktoberfest: Men mostly shyly

An interesting observation by Baumann is the flirting behavior of German men at the Oktoberfest. She describes this as rather reserved and reports that many men usually find out in groups to address women. "The gentlemen always have to drink a little courage to get in motion," she explains. This intimidation can create a wall between you and the women.

In comparison, men from southern Europe, such as Spaniards or Italians, are often more active and confident. It is easier for them to address women, even if they are sober. "You could say that they have more ambition or lack of distance," said Baumann, also indicating the cultural -specific differences when flirting.

Of course there are also unforgettable and sometimes questionable flirt stories that have fun or shock the waitresses. Baumann remembers a particularly violent episode: "A couple smooched wildly on the bench, and the woman had to hand over. Then the couple just continued. 'Brutal, something'," she quotes herself from her everyday life in the marquee.

The dark side of the exuberant flirting

While the Oktoberfest is a place of pleasure for many, Baumann also points to the dark sides of the festival. Although flirts often seem to be funny and carefree, the alcoholic effects can quickly lead to unpleasant situations. It is a thin line between consumption and attacks. According to Baumann, this problem should not be underestimated, and the experiences of waitresses who had to deal with rude or even aggressive guests are alarming. A scientist from the Munich University of Applied Sciences has documented these attacks and frequency, which illustrates the extent of the problem.

The enjoyment of alcohol can both lift the mood in the mixed atmosphere of the Oktoberfest and quickly turn into inappropriate behaviors. Baumann warns: "Don't drink too much, otherwise the flirts can backfire."

In summary, it turns out that the Oktoberfest is much more than a pure beer festival. It is a place full of emotions, encounters and stories that are both entertaining and thoughtful. The balance between celebrations and mindfulness remains a challenge that needs to be mastered in order to preserve the happy atmosphere.